.But what Astrid does not realize yet is a fact that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that possesses 2 boys-- can vouch for: The fact that your relationship along with your parents modifications as well as grows as you each grow older, and also perhaps for the better. "Your world facilities around [your children] when they're infants [and also] it is actually a lot work however attractive," O'Hara states. "Later on, you truly miss that, given that then you can't obtain all of them to accomplish just about anything you desire all of them to carry out, due to the fact that they begin building their own thoughts, their own point of views." And at some point, you end up in the area O'Hara, whose kids are in their 20s and 30s, finds herself now, able to pick up from her kids. "They're just such great younger fellas," she mentions. "I'm not their friend, however I love possessing discussions along with them as well as understanding exactly how they think about life.".